This is dedicated to all my girls who loved someone who loved them back but, got left hanging.
For most of us, it's pretty clear what mutual understanding means. But, for those who don't know, it's when two people who like each other and their feelings are clear to the both of them so they act like a couple but it's not really official. It's like their a couple but, then they're not really one. You can say it's just like they haven't DTRed. But, this blog post isn't just about that. It's about having something like that but, after a few months, they'll just suddenly and magically disappear without a word. This is to those who were left without a reason or an explanation. I dedicate this to those who have experienced that kind of love. I know it hurts. I'm sorry that it does. I know you probably feel like shit and is always thinking about what you did wrong for him to just..leave. And right now all you want to hear is a simple good-bye. Even just that. Even if what he would say sounds like a crappy excuse, it would suffice. Because all you ever really wanted was a reason why. You don't deserve to be treated like this. You deserve an explanation and you are worth it. Don't let that person who left you hanging, destroy you. You deserve to be loved and not be treated like someone who is so easy to leave. And if you're still crying about it, don't feel like you need to stop. Because crying will help you. Crying doesn't make you look weak. It only shows how much you've been through and how tough you've been to still be standing here. So, cry! Because keeping it in would only drown you. It will only break you more. But, after all of that is done and you've wiped your tears away, remember this. Fuck them. Your world does not revolve on someone who doesn't see how amazing you are and can leave you in just a snap. And when you finally get the chance to talk to them and they tell you why they left, it's probably because they can't handle being in love, or they think you're too good for them, or that they don't have enough time. Well, let me tell you this and please remember this: If it was that easy for them to leave you and forget about all the memories you've shared together, Then it probably meant little or nothing to them. So, stop thinking about them and the reason why they left. Start thinking about yourself because you are the only one who can help you. Don't be afraid to move on and be single. Because, when the time comes that you've finally let go that's when you'll realize that turning the page is the best feeling ever. You are beautiful and amazing. Don't let whatever this person who left you ruin what awaits you. And always remember that you are worth far more than gold.
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